Single Mom By Choice - Oakland Acupuncture

Single Mom By Choice

Becoming a parent is a life-changing experience, but for single women who choose to have a child on their own, the journey can be especially challenging. The decision to become a single mom by choice is a brave and empowering one, but it’s also one that comes with a unique set of joys and struggles.

What does it take to have a baby as a single mom by choice?

1. Testing for you

There are standard tests that are used to make sure everything is in working order.

  • Fertility panels to evaluate your eggs, uterus, and fallopian tubes.
  • Blood work for general health including thyroid and iron levels.

2. Choosing a sperm source

Sperm comes from one of two places, either a known donor, or a sperm bank.

  • Known donor.
  • Sperm bank

3. Choosing your fertility team

Single moms by choice are champions at building a good support network, including:

  • Fertility specialist
  • Ob/gyn or midwife
  • Doula
  • Lactation consultant
  • New mom’s groups

4. Understanding your treatment options

There are many ways a single mom by choice can have a child. You can choose what will work best for the family you are building.

  • Non-medicated Artificial Insemination (AI)
  • Medicated Intrauterine Insemination (IUI)
  • In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)
  • Donor egg
  • Donor embryo

5. Preparing for pregnancy and motherhood

Pregnancy and parenthood are like running a marathon. It takes a certain amount of work to be well prepared.

  • Overall Health
  • Reproductive Health
  • Nutrition
  • Lifestyle
  • Support Network

Choosing to become a single mom by choice through fertility treatments can be a challenging and emotional, but it’s also a path that can bring immense joy and fulfillment. Whether you choose to pursue artificial insemination, IUI, IVF, donor egg or use a donor embryo, it’s important to do your research, understand your options, and seek support from trusted medical professionals and loved ones.

Above all, it’s important to remember that there is no one “right” way to start a family.

The decision to become a parent is a deeply personal one that should be made with careful consideration and support. For those who choose the path of single motherhood by choice, it’s a journey that can bring immense joy, love, and fulfillment and is a self-empowering way to build the family and the life that you want.

If you live in the Bay Area and would like to work with us:

We’ll work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan for having a baby and building your family.

Leslie Oldershaw, L.Ac.
Medical Director
Fertility Acupuncturist Oakland
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